Nancy, (not her real name) worked part-time teaching meditation and yoga to teenagers. She had been invited to apply for her current position. A Projector’s strategy is to wait to be invited, the polarity they are asked to balance is success and bitterness. As a Projector, Nancy had sampled success in the career area of her life, yet in other areas of life, she felt resentful and bitter.
Nancy is a Splenic Projector, 4/6 Profile, wide Split, Incarnation: Cross of the 4 Ways
Completing her Uranus Opposition Life Cycle (40)
After hearing about Human Design from a friend, Nancy did a thorough research on the internet. She intuitively knew it could answer her quest to have a happier and more successful life. Following her intuition, she reached out to me for a consultation and continued support to face her challenges and make some changes. I recognized myself in Nancy’s challenges, do you?
- She had physical health challenges that limited her activities like others in her age group. She was often self-critical and highly sensitive to her environment. These two symptoms often go hand-in-hand. We often feel there must be something wrong with us because others in the ‘normal world’ don’t seem to suffer or get overwhelmed as we do.
- She had endured extreme loss and grief at an early age making it a hard time to relate with her peers. Between her circumstances, critical nature and perfectionist patterns she felt like alone and isolated. As a coping mechanism, she compromised her needs and beliefs to keep friends and potential partners that ultimately lead to more loss and grief.
- For many years she had wanted to relocate from her crowded urban area to be around more trees and open space. But there was no invitation or opportunities to move. She felt stuck! When nature calls us it is also a call to trust. Trust in its timing, not ours.
- Nancy had a deep desire to be healthy emotionally and spirituality. She knew she could benefit from someone to validate her natural gifts and talents and to guide her to play to her strengths.
“Start where you are. Do what you can. Use what you have.” ~ Author Ashe
Over the next 5 months, through her Human Design consultations, assigned reading about her Design, Gene Keys, and Venus Sequence her self-awareness increased. Demonstration of that awareness allowed her to:
Face her shadow with compassion * Forgive * Love & Accept herself deeply * Set healthy boundaries with her friends * Soften her critical nature * Find new perceptions and ways to satisfy her need to influence others (4th Line Profile) * Communicate with Confidence * Recognize and enhance her intuitive nature * Be more present, relaxed and calmer in her body * Release her unrealistic expectations quickly * Trust her decisions
In just a few short months Nancy received an invitation to work full time, for six months, teaching children meditation and yoga. This opportunity allowed her to live in a rural area surrounded by nature preserves. A new frequency unfolded for Nancy along with new friends and companions. After the six months, she was invited to relocated full time.
When we embrace and shed our shadow parts, much like a snake shedding its skin, something new emerges for us…perfectly. This newness contains risks, uncertainties, along with new decisions, in new places, with new people. We find ourselves on shaky ground. To navigate and integrate takes time, patience, support and using your psychic energy (full attention) to stabilize the new: essentially it will need your best TLC to gel and flourish.
And suddenly you know: It’s time to start something new and trust in the magic of Beginnings. ~ Meister Eckhart
Nattalee is available for private consultation, on-going coaching, workshops and presentations on Aligning with your Design and applying this revolutionary science for personal and professional success.
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